Hormones

People want to be in a "RELATIONSHIP"..

Many reasons!!!

BUT relationship doesn't mean it has to be b/w a girl or a boy

Can be blw mother and daughter

Father and daughter

Brother and sister

Sister and sister 

Person always needs to be socially present 

Someone has to be with him..

to accompany him..

to take away being singleness.. loneliness 

It can be achieved thru any relationship with any person or nature or even  dog!! 

But at a certain age..

we people donot care about ...

relation blw one and his parents

One and his frnds

One and his relatives 

One and his surrounding nature 

Bcoz we lost excitement with them

We need someone to be with..more excited..more reachable!!

To release

Orxytocin

Endorphin

Serotanin

Dopamine 

AND 

Search for a boy or a girl..to be in a relation.. 

In any ""Relation""....i.e to relate with other person..

To relate with their emotions 

Are they feeling sad like me!! Relate

Are they feeling happy like me!! Relate

Relate to a person...

Its not relate with a person..

If you are not relating to each other..you could not be with each other!!!

A Person needs are same!!!

Just..

Knowing each other..

Understanding..

Sympathising..

Empathising..

Sharing...

Caring... 

But people now in ""relationship ""

Thinks it as..

Lust or sex or physical needs whatever you call !!

Other things become less prior!!

To get those hormones..

this is 

FASTER 

EASIER 

SIMPLER 

These hormones gives you PLEASURE  

BUT they don't understand what comes fast..go fast!! 

Emotionally connecting  also gives similar hormones..

just TAKES TIME

SLOWER

DIFFICULT 

BUT ENDURING

Same hormones here give you HAPPINESS  and LASTING  cause here you are relating with each other..being with each other!!

If sex is only thing..binding you!!

ITS NOT A RELATIONSHIP ..but sexualship!!!